4. “I’m in no way outraged by this. I’ve been hearing this since the day I could mince. It’s just disappointing . We experience so much discrimination from the outside world, wouldn’t it be great if we were kinder to each other in our own community? There are a billion reasons to feel actual shame and remorse. Being your authentic, fabulous, faggy self shouldn’t be one of them.” Comedian/actor Alec Mapa responding to actor Russell Tovey’s statements that he’s glad he’s not effeminate. Tovey has apologized.