Bruce Garner has been actively involved in Atlanta nonprofits for over 35 years and has received several awards for his volunteer work in HIV/AIDS and LGBT agencies. He currently serves on the boards of Lost-n-Found Youth, Integrity USA, The Episcopal Diocese of Atlanta and The General Theological Seminary of The Episcopal Church. Garner wrote this editorial in reaction to our story “The ‘sterilization’ of Cheshire Bridge: How LGBT culture can thrive amidst new developments.” Got something on your mind? Submit your guest editorial to

I was born in Atlanta at St. Joseph’s Infirmary, now Hospital, when it was located in the area where the Marriott Marquis and Hilton are now. I grew up in East Atlanta, Ormewood Park and Grant Park and am a product of the Atlanta public school system. I earned a BS in Biology from Emory University. All that is to say that I have witnessed much in our city over my lifetime … the good, the bad and, of course, the ugly. The story about Cheshire Bridge Road got my blood boiling. It doesn’t tell the historical “story” about how Atlanta has dealt with many issues.

I left Atlanta for career reasons and returned in 1978. I bought the townhouse in Midtown where I continue to live. An attractive feature was that I could walk to nine gay bars, two gay bookstores and a gay bath. I was also walking distance to many other amenities and attractions. Needless to say, Midtown has changed and I’m not sure always for the better. So-called gentrification drove out many of us queer folk, and city attitudes and zoning changes did the same with many of our community watering holes and businesses. Yes, I can still walk to maybe four gay bars and several gay restaurants, but the vibrancy of Midtown has been seriously dimmed … and a lot of it by suburbanites from Gwinnett and Cobb Counties who wanted to bring suburban living to Midtown! I’m sorry but if you want a suburban lifestyle, stay in the suburbs! Blake’s had to have soundproof windows installed because neighbors didn’t like the noises of the city. They have clearly never been to New York or Chicago!

Our City Council and its members have always been beholding to the real estate community or has had a large number of realtors as members, even back when it was the Board of Aldermen. That’s how and why many treasures were torn down in the name of progress. Someone was indebted to someone else and wanted to build a new and so-called better something or other. The near loss of the Fox Theatre dampened that destruction to a degree but only because it was such a landmark.

We once had a row of bars where the Federal Reserve Bank now sits. On the Peachtree side of the block were a variety of restaurants including one of the best Vietnamese in the city. Of course, we lost Backstreet and the Armory a few years ago so we could get yet more high rise residential buildings. It always struck me as cowardly that the city would not just enforce the law outside both bars and leave well enough alone inside. They used the same tactic to “improve” Buckhead’s entertainment district. Some people just can’t mind their own business … too busy sticking their nose into the business of others.

Yes, we have many shiny new high rise residential buildings in Midtown and now on Piedmont and Cheshire Bridge. And yes they have plenty of parking. What has not been addressed is the stress all of the new residents and cars are having on street traffic and the infrastructure needed to support thousands of new residents. No one could be bothered … they were too busy issuing building permits as soon as demolition permits had done their worst. Adding thousands more toilets to a century-plus and aging sewer system isn’t urban planning.

How many remember the entertainment we once had at Cheshire Bridge and Lindbergh/Lavista? Now we have a Whole Foods. Do they know there was once a bathhouse there? There is a straight strip club on Cheshire Bridge where the Sweetgum Head once flourished. The entrance was in the back, not out of fear but because there was another business on the front half of the building.

So is it any surprise what is going on with Cheshire Bridge? “Adult businesses” is nothing but code. It includes queer bars as well. Some folks just cannot handle the fact that LGBTQ businesses are brazen enough to exist on a major thoroughfare with entrances on the road right out in front of God and everyone in broad open daylight! Do I trust what we have been told about zoning and grandfathering? Not at all. Promises were made to the communities around Turner Field and, before that, Atlanta Fulton-County Stadium. Same for the Georgia Dome. Any evidence that they have been met? Not yet.

Bigotry, racism, sexism, classism, xenophobia, homophobia, transphobia, et al are alive and well. They just masquerade as other things at times or as more blatant words and actions in response to us getting our rainbow crosswalks. Yes dears, funds might be better spent elsewhere, but that will always be the case in someone’s viewpoint. We might want to address our internalized homophobias that won’t allow us to take pride in our very existence. We would be of a more healthy mindset. There is an undercurrent of this under the “zoning” issues as well … good luck getting ownership for it.

We can be as passive as we have always been about claiming our rightful place in what goes on in this community as we always have been. The only rise that was ever gotten out of the LGBTQ community prior to Orlando was the Eagle raid. Then of course, we had many who were quick to distance themselves from “that kind of place.” Get over it folks … everyone knows where everyone else goes … it’s not that large a community in reality. On the other hand, we can resurrect some of the activism of the ACT UP years during the AIDS epidemic and claim who we are with pride and honor. Just think how much it would shake up the establishment if queers actually did cause a ruckus, especially if those leading it were the silver-haired elders who were finally fed up?

Remember the phrase “Silence equals death”? Well, it doesn’t just apply to HIV/AIDS. It also applies to us as a community regardless of how fractured we might appear to be. When was the last time you sounded off to an elected official about how you were being treated? Yes, I realize that both senators don’t care, but we can still flood them with calls and emails! If they don’t hear from us, they presume (assume might be better) we agree with them. Do we? Do you? Just how sterile do you want your community to be?

7 Responses

  1. Rigs-in-Gear

    Amen. You are preaching to the choir. Unfortunately, we are our own worst enemy in this gentrification of our neighborhoods. Across America, the gay community takes the most blighted urban areas and make them shiny and new. And desirable to, as you mentioned, suburbanites wanting the hip, urban lifestyle. This would be fine if they respected the spectrum of our community, from the fabulous and posh to the seamy underbelly. On WSBTV news last night, there was an absurd story about a group of Yups outraged at the trans hookers working THEIR neighborhood. They harassed the hooker, taking out iphones and filming. As tenacious a survivor as any creature on God’s green earth, said hooker took out her knife and threatened them. Well, who ended up in jail? Not the Yups, who were guilty of filming a private citizen without their permission, nor WSB, for airing the footage. Sorry kiddies, but those girls have been working those corners before you were born and maybe you should have considered the native species before you invested your lucre in your too faboo loft. In the words of Benjamin Franklin, “those who sacrifice liberty for security deserve neither.

    • David Promis

      Everybody is ready to make others change, except when it becomes their turn! Change is inevitable and living in the past is never a healthy alternative! Bigotry begets bigotry!

      • Rigs-in-Gear

        Changing who and what you are to accommodate the sensitivities of others is the unhealthy alternative. I know hiding in plain sight is the favored stance in ATL, but if everyone everywhere played this way, there would have never been a gay liberation movement. Don’t assume that because a few battles were won that the war is over. Living in the past may not be healthy, but forgetting the past can be deadly.

  2. Linda Meredith

    The bemoaning of the loss of bathhouses and gay men’s clubs is actually counter to Bruce’s longing for a big queer tent. None of the thing’s the author seems to long for affect any other part of this rainbow other than the ‘G’.
    None of this is about anything in my mind except the internet, the loss of community gathering places and the continuing slide toward conservatism here in our ATL.
    How about starting by holding our ‘gay leaders’ accountable to all of us and pressing for a June Pride again?

  3. R. Scott Silvestre

    Can’t say I ever saw any good coming from bathhouses. Our clubs were good for their time but I think it’s healthier we mix with the gen-pop.

  4. Raymond

    It’s been a long time Bruce. I’m going through old All Saints directories and wondering what folks have been up to. You posted this 2 years ago but hopefully you are still kicking in the butt like your post above. I remember all you mentioned and I saw that all disappear as you said long before I moved to the Seattle area in 2007. One exception I disagree is bringing to mind our bath houses to the general public. Yes they existed and still do and for someone who frequented them (me), the vast majority of patrons there were not taking a bath. We know as a gay community they exist and for most of us, it was a place not to take your bath. You bathed “afterwards” if you did at all. I say all this because the bath houses epitomizes the gay scene that the anti-gay just uses as one of their go-to’s to show their stance is just and right for the bigotry they’ve harbored for generations. We know about bathhouse and know behaviors probably won’t change on either side so for me, I’d rather keep that place of business out of sight. I would suppose you can throw in bookstores with the booth glory holes. We know they’re there, let’s just keep it out of the media for the anti groups out there to use at their disposal. But hey, my reply is 2 years late. Discussion is over now but wanted to first say hello and put in my two cents. Great health to you Bruce.


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